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Monday, November 13, 2023

Today in the PC-USA Mission Yearbook


The Mission Yearbook for Prayer and Study is a daily devotional with 365 inspiring mission stories that come from next door and all across the globe. It inspires thousands of Presbyterians daily as they uphold the mission of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) in intercessory prayer.

Dr. Melva W. Costen
Today in the Mission Yearbook: November 13, 2023

A CELEBRATION OF LIFE FOR DR. MELVA WILSON COSTEN - Over her long career in higher education and in hymnody, Dr. Melva Wilson Costen taught her students that music is a gift from God that can lift our spirits and serve as a refuge during difficult times. “It speaks,” said the Rev. Addie Peterson, eulogizing Costen at Central Presbyterian Church in Atlanta, “when we don’t know the words to say.”

Costen, described as a “premier professor in Reformed Christian worship and African American Presbyterianism,” died Sept. 8 at age 90 ...

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Monday, October 2, 2023

C.S. Lewis Daily - Today's Reading

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Today's Reading

Lewis, grieving the death of his wife, Joy:

‘It was too perfect to last,’ so I am tempted to say of our marriage. But it can be meant in two ways. It may be grimly pessimistic — as if God no sooner saw two of His creatures happy than He stopped it (‘None of that here!’). As if He were like the Hostess at the sherry-party who separates two guests the moment they show signs of having got into a real conversation. But it could also mean ‘This had reached its proper perfection. This had become what it had in it to be. Therefore of course it would not be prolonged.’ As if God said, ‘Good; you have mastered that exercise. I am very pleased with it. And now you are ready to go on to the next.’ When you have learned to do quadratics and enjoy doing them you will not be set them much longer. The teacher moves you on.

For we did learn and achieve something. There is, hidden or flaunted, a sword between the sexes till an entire marriage reconciles them. It is arrogance in us to call frankness, fairness, and chivalry ‘masculine’ when we see them in a woman; it is arrogance in them to describe a man’s sensitiveness or tact or tenderness as ‘feminine.’ But also what poor, warped fragments of humanity most mere men and mere women must be to make the implications of that arrogance plausible. Marriage heals this. Jointly the two become fully human. ‘In the image of God created He them.’ Thus, by a paradox, this carnival of sexuality leads us out beyond our sexes.

From A Grief Observed
Compiled in A Year with C.S. Lewis

Friday, September 1, 2023

C.S. Lewis Daily - Today's Reading

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Today's Reading

TO MARGARET DENEKE: On the death of her husband, Paul Benecke, Lewis’s old history tutor and a Fellow at Magdalen College.

3 October 1944

It will give me great pleasure to come to lunch at one o’clock on Oct. 30th. I will not try to express my sympathy to Miss Benecke when we meet—such things are often merely embarrassing. You, I am sure, will not doubt that she has it.

The gap in College is terrible. Already (and yet it is only a few days) I have twice found myself setting aside a problem ‘to ask Benecke about it’ and then realised with a pang that there is no more of that. His image haunts every room in Magdalen. I hear his imagined voice again and again: so vividly, when crossing Magdalen bridge this morning, that I almost wondered if there were not some objective reality in the experience. I can hardly explain how his funeral affected me. I have heard that service read in that chapel so often for those who have not believed a word of it and who (had they been alive) would have mocked, that my feeling was almost one of relief. Here at last was a dead man not unworthy of the service. In some queer way it enormously strengthened my faith, and before we filed out of chapel I really felt (do not misunderstand me) a kind of joy—a feeling that all was well, just as well as it could be.

I count it among my great good fortunes to have known him. As far as human eyes can judge he was—is—a saint: but oh!, we still needed him here so very badly.

From The Collected Letters of C.S. Lewis
Compiled in Yours, Jack

Friday, June 16, 2023

C.S. Lewis Daily - Today's Reading

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Today's Reading

Lewis, grieving the death of his wife, Joy:

Why has no one told me these things? How easily I might have misjudged another man in the same situation? I might have said, ‘He’s got over it. He’s forgotten his wife,’ when the truth was, ‘He remembers her better because he has partly got over it.’

Such was the fact. And I believe I can make sense out of it. You can’t see anything properly while your eyes are blurred with tears. You can’t, in most things, get what you want if you want it too desperately: anyway, you can’t get the best out of it. ‘Now! Let’s have a real good talk’ reduces everyone to silence. ‘I must get a good sleep tonight’ ushers in hours of wakefulness. Delicious drinks are wasted on a really ravenous thirst. Is it similarly the very intensity of the longing that draws the iron curtain, that makes us feel we are staring into a vacuum when we think about our dead? ‘Them as asks’ (at any rate ‘as asks too importunately’) don’t get. Perhaps can’t.

And so, perhaps, with God. I have gradually been coming to feel that the door is no longer shut and bolted. Was it my own frantic need that slammed it in my face? The time when there is nothing at all in your soul except a cry for help may be just the time when God can’t give it: you are like the drowning man who can’t be helped because he clutches and grabs. Perhaps your own reiterated cries deafen you to the voice you hoped to hear.

From A Grief Observed
Compiled in A Year with C.S. Lewis

Saturday, June 10, 2023

C.S. Lewis Daily - Today's Reading

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Today's Reading

Lewis, grieving the death of his wife, Joy:

They tell me H. is happy now, they tell me she is at peace. What makes them so sure of this? I don’t mean that I fear the worst of all. Nearly her last words were, ‘I am at peace with God.’ She had not always been. And she never lied. And she wasn’t easily deceived, least of all, in her own favour. I don’t mean that. But why are they so sure that all anguish ends with death? More than half the Christian world, and millions in the East, believe otherwise. How do they know she is ‘at rest’? Why should the separation (if nothing else) which so agonizes the lover who is left behind be painless to the lover who departs?

‘Because she is in God’s hands.’ But if so, she was in God’s hands all the time, and I have seen what they did to her here. Do they suddenly become gentler to us the moment we are out of the body? And if so, why? If God’s goodness is inconsistent with hurting us, then either God is not good or there is no God: for in the only life we know He hurts us beyond our worst fears and beyond all we can imagine. If it is consistent with hurting us, then He may hurt us after death as unendurably as before it.

Sometimes it is hard not to say, ‘God forgive God.’ Sometimes it is hard to say so much. But if our faith is true, He didn’t. He crucified Him.

From A Grief Observed
Compiled in A Year with C.S. Lewis

Tuesday, June 6, 2023

C.S. Lewis Daily - Today's Reading

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Lewis, grieving the death of his wife, Joy:

Meanwhile, where is God? This is one of the most disquieting symptoms. When you are happy, so happy that you have no sense of needing Him, so happy that you are tempted to feel His claims upon you as an interruption, if you remember yourself and turn to Him with gratitude and praise, you will be—or so it feels—welcomed with open arms. But go to Him when your need is desperate, when all other help is vain, and what do you find? A door slammed in your face, and a sound of bolting and double bolting on the inside. After that, silence. You may as well turn away. The longer you wait, the more emphatic the silence will become. There are no lights in the windows. It might be an empty house. Was it ever inhabited? It seemed so once. And that seeming was as strong as this. What can this mean? Why is He so present a commander in our time of prosperity and so very absent a help in time of trouble?

I tried to put some of these thoughts to C. this afternoon. He reminded me that the same thing seems to have happened to Christ: ‘Why hast thou forsaken me?’ I know. Does that make it easier to understand?

Not that I am (I think) in much danger of ceasing to believe in God. The real danger is of coming to believe such dreadful things about Him. The conclusion I dread is not ‘So there’s no God after all,’ but ‘So this is what God’s really like. Deceive yourself no longer.’

From A Grief Observed
Compiled in A Year with C.S. Lewis

Friday, June 2, 2023

C.S. Lewis Daily - Today's Reading

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Today's Reading

Lewis, grieving the death of his wife, Joy:

What does it matter how this grief of mine evolves or what I do with it? What does it matter how I remember her or whether I remember her at all? None of these alternatives will either ease or aggravate her past anguish.

Her past anguish. How do I know that all her anguish is past? I never believed before—I thought it immensely improbable—that the faithfulest soul could leap straight into perfection and peace the moment death has rattled in the throat. It would be wishful thinking with a vengeance to take up that belief now. H. was a splendid thing; a soul straight, bright, and tempered like a sword. But not a perfected saint. A sinful woman married to a sinful man; two of God’s patients, not yet cured. I know there are not only tears to be dried but stains to be scoured. The sword will be made even brighter.

But oh God, tenderly, tenderly.

From A Grief Observed
Compiled in A Year with C.S. Lewis

Tuesday, May 30, 2023

C.S. Lewis Daily - Today's Reading

Presented by Bible Gateway
Today's Reading

Lewis, grieving the death of his wife, Joy:

No one ever told me that grief felt so like fear. I am not afraid, but the sensation is like being afraid. The same fluttering in the stomach, the same restlessness, the yawning. I keep on swallowing.

At other times it feels like being mildly drunk, or concussed. There is a sort of invisible blanket between the world and me. I find it hard to take in what anyone says. Or perhaps, hard to want to take it in. It is so uninteresting. Yet I want the others to be about me. I dread the moments when the house is empty. If only they would talk to one another and not to me.

There are moments, most unexpectedly, when something inside me tries to assure me that I don’t really mind so much, not so very much, after all. Love is not the whole of a man’s life. I was happy before I ever met H. I’ve plenty of what are called ‘resources.’ People get over these things. Come, I shan’t do so badly. One is ashamed to listen to this voice but it seems for a little to be making out a good case. Then comes a sudden jab of red-hot memory and all this ‘commonsense’ vanishes like an ant in the mouth of a furnace.

From A Grief Observed
Compiled in A Year with C.S. Lewis

Monday, April 3, 2023

In the News ... "'Julian Bridges, 91, was passionate yet compassionate with all"

ARN File Photo
• His dedication to community and mission work left a legacy

By Greg Jaklewicz, Reporter
Abilene Reporter-News

ABILENE, TEXAS - Julian Bridges' youngest daughter believes her father's name described him perfectly.

"I always thought God predestined my dad to have the last name Bridges because that's what he did all of his life," Marelyn Bridges Shedd said. "He built bridges between people and tried to meet people in the middle to where they would understand each other better.

"He saw value in every single person. He believed every single person was here because God had a purpose for them." Julian Bridges taught for more than 30 years at Hardin-Simmons University.

Bridges, a Hardin-Simmons University sociology professor and head of the social work department, served one term on the Abilene City Council, elected in 1982. He was mayor pro tempore in 1984.

He and then-Billye Proctor-Shaw were elected as Citizens for Better Government candidates the same year. She was the second woman elected to the council.

Bridges, who would've been 92 on Monday, died March 20 ...

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Sunday, February 5, 2023

Today in the PC-USA Mission Yearbook


The Mission Yearbook for Prayer and Study is a daily devotional with 365 inspiring mission stories that come from next door and all across the globe. It inspires thousands of Presbyterians daily as they uphold the mission of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) in intercessory prayer.

Courtesy of US Army Chaplains Center & School
Today in the Mission Yearbook: February 5, 2023

REMEMBER OUR CHAPLAINS: PRESBYTERIAN FEDERAL CHAPLAINCIES - The Four Chaplains stood on the deck of the USAT Dorchester on Feb. 3, 1943. Linked arm in arm, chaplains George Fox (Methodist), Alexander Goode (Jewish), Clark Poling (Reformed) and John Washington (Roman Catholic) sang hymns and offered prayers as the ship sank beneath the turbulent waves of the North Atlantic. Perhaps these courageous servants of God were comforted, even as we read in our Psalm, by knowing the faithful love of our Lord endures forever ...

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Thursday, January 19, 2023

In the News ... "Annual walk remembers Dr. Martin Luther King Jr."

BSH Photo by Andreia Medlin
“I am grateful to everyone who showed up”

By Andreia Medlin, Reporter
Big Spring Herald


BIG SPRING, TEXAS - In the spirit of solidarity commemorating the birth of civil right activist the Rev. Martin Luther King Jr., a group of about 50 people set out on foot down Martin Luther King Boulevard, Monday evening. Many were singing spiritual hymns that served as rallying cries during the Civil Rights Movement. Supporters followed in several vehicles along the 1.4 mile marc. ...

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In the News ... "'Bill Libby, 85, lived a pastor's life, served others, solved problems"

"Bill, in his practicality, looked for a need and then fulfilled it."

By Greg Jaklewicz, Reporter
Abilene Reporter-News

ABILENE, TEXAS - Bill Libby had two intentions in life, Bob Monk said.

One was to help others in their lives, be it a student-athlete at McMurry University, a veteran who felt disconnected or someone he might not know.

"The reality, as far as I'm concerned, is you look at Bill and see him as finding his life in helping others in their lives," Monk said. Particularly as a mentor to young me - on the battlefield in Vietnam or on the college campus.

The other was more practical. What could he do to make something, such as easier access to a building, happen?

"What I saw was that over the years, whatever McMurry might need that other people maybe didn't recognize, he was simply able to say to McMurry, What's going on? What else can I help with?" Monk said. "That is a major aspect of how he was generous.

"He was generous to the core."

Libby, a Vietnam War veteran, will be buried later this year at Arlington National Cemetery. His late wife, Amy, is interred there.

"Bill Libby is really the embodiment of the core values of McMurry University," said University President Dr. Sandra Harper. "One of his major characteristics was he was a problem-solver. He would see something that he felt would enhance the university, and he then would figure out if he could fix it or provide support for it or garner some other kind of group that would be able to support it.

"He was the penultimate problem-solver.

Coming to Abilene

Monk met Libby at Texas A&M University in 1964. Monk was assistant campus minister when Libby was a "fish."

"Our lives were intertwined" since then, Monk said Thursday. Libby later would attend seminary not far from where Monk was going to graduate school

They reunited when Libby came to Abilene in 1991 to take an assistant pastor's role at St. Paul. Monk already was here, at McMurry, where he taught for 31 years in the religious life department. In 1996, that Methodist connection and Monk's push landed Libby as a faculty member there.

His Old Testament and History classes were student favorites.

Libby was religious, too, about running, and seeing a need, launched a cross country program in 1995. It became a school athletic program the next year. For five years, he personally funded the program. He won two conference titles before stepping down in 2002 to return to teaching. Before doing so, he established an endowment to continue to fund the sport.

"His most important aspect at McMurry was to be appointed so that he had the opportunity to work with the athletes," Monk said. Libby was a marathoner, who run courses in Europe and in the U.S. - wherever he was stationed in the military.

Libby served as athletic director from 2006-08 and headed a life skills program called CHAMPS.

Monk said Libby was tasked to help athletes in academics "but also in the variety of how the college could serve through athletes," Monk said.

“Bill loved McMurry, and that love was reciprocated,” Sam Ferguson, vice president for student Affairs and intercollegiate athletics, said in a university statement. “He was the guy who would go out of his way to add value to others, and we were lucky to call him a friend."

His third and fourth callings in life were leading biblical and archaeological trips to Jordan and teaming with McMurry political science professor Paul Fabrizio as hosts of the radio talk show "The Professors," from 2005-17.

Earlier life

Libby was born in Barnsdall, Okla., and graduated from high school as a Dumas Demon. He traveled 600 miles southeast to College Station to attend Texas A&M to play the French horn in the band. But the calling for the pastoral ministry began there, leading him to also become chaplain of the band and the then-all-male Corps of Cadets.

"I think he knew every person in the band ... and the Corps," Monk said, laughing. "Bill was concerned about people. You already saw him as a pastor. That became his major focus, really."

Libby's education included attaining his Master of Divinity degree from Drew Theological School, a Methodist campus in Madison, New Jersey.

He married Amelia Ann Dunkle on Sept. 9, 1961, in Wilmington, Delaware.

Libby served for 30 years in the Army. His service included duty in Vietnam, where he earned a Bronze Star for his ministry. He retired as a colonel.

"Vietnam was very important to him. It defined a lot of aspects of his life," Monk said.

He was photographed in Hue, Vietnam, in 1968, as soldiers mourned the fallen. It was included in Ken Burns' documentary on the war

Have need, will fund it

Monk said Libby didn't look for list of people in need, he found that person or that need on his own.

"Which is a pastor," Monk said. "That was part of who he was. There would be no way to account for how many students he personally helped, not only in terms of their spiritual life and academic world but also simply helping them financially."

Or giving them a ride.

His friend, Monk said, lived a simple life so he could pour his time and resources into others and into projects.

"When I also think about the core values," Harper said, "what stands out to me, we have a core value about relationships being the catalyst for life. With the students, the student-athletes, student artists and thespians and musicians, he would really garner those relationships. He would be the ultimate fan or the ultimate audience member and then would come back and talk about how great a production it was or how great a game it was. Be sure to support the students.

"When I think about our core values, his relationships will stand out to me and it will be his lasting legacy at McMurry."

As he recognized the needs of young athletes, Libby in later years saw needs for those growing older, as he was.

If became a challenge for him to navigate the stairs in the McMurry administration building.

"He said, 'OK, we need an elevator in this place," Monk said. "So he funded it."

A similar thing happened at St. Paul, where Libby led an effort to install a ramp to make back-door entry to the kitchen easier for seniors ...

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Tuesday, January 17, 2023

Today in the PC-USA Mission Yearbook


The Mission Yearbook for Prayer and Study is a daily devotional with 365 inspiring mission stories that come from next door and all across the globe. It inspires thousands of Presbyterians daily as they uphold the mission of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) in intercessory prayer.

The Rev. Dr. Robert Brashear
Today in the Mission Yearbook: January 17, 2023

REV. DR. ROBERT LAIRD BRASHEAR - Friends and family of a passionate and prophetic Presbyterian pastor recently gathered at Broadway Presbyterian Church in New York City to share their gratitude for the life, faith and hard work of the Rev. Dr. Robert Laird Brashear ...

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Tuesday, January 10, 2023

In the News ... "Trinity Baptist program offers help dealing with death of a loved one"

BSH File Photo
• For people grieving the loss of a friend or family member

By Roger Cline, Managing Editor
Big Spring Herald


BIG SPRING, TEXAS - The loss of a loved one can be a crippling experience for many people. Feelings of grief can overwhelm survivors, and make coping with the realities of life difficult if not impossible. Since 2017, Big Spring's Trinity Baptist Church has participated in a program bringing grieving people together and helping them find comfort through their Christian walk ...

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Monday, January 9, 2023

From @chinaaid : "Chen Ziliang Passes In Detention Center"

The ChinaAid Association is a non-profit Christian organization - based in Midland, Texas - with a mission to uncover and reveal the truth about religious persecution in China, focusing especially on the unofficial church. They do this, they explain in their website, by exposing the abuses, encouraging the abused and equipping the saints to advance the kingdom of God throughout China.

Chen Ziliang Passes In Detention Center
ChinaAid Photo
Distributed by ChinaAid, January 2023 ...

LISHUI, ZHEJIANG PROVINCE, CHINA – Chen Ziliang, a member of the China Democracy Party’s Zhejiang Preparatory Committee, passed away on December 24, 2022, while in custody at the Jinyun County Detention Center in Lishui, Zhejiang province ...

More on this story from ChinaAid ...

In the News ... "Annual MLK Walk ready to go Monday"

BSH File Photo
• Will start at 6 pm Monday, at the intersection of MLK Boulevard and Gregg Street

By Andreia Medlin, Reporter
Big Spring Herald


BIG SPRING, TEXAS - Mt. Bethel Baptist Church invites Howard and the surrounding counties to join them in commemorating the life and the vision of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. ...

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Friday, October 21, 2022

In the News ... "‘Pillow Pals’ exists because of Jane Pase’s servant’s heart"

Courtesy Photo
• Let’s step back and take a closer look at Jane and her life.

By PJenifer Dumire, The Breast Center at Midland Health, Contributor
Midland Reporter-Telegram

MIDLAND, TEXAS -In January of 2015, I was invited to Grace Lutheran to conduct an outreach to educate the ladies on the need for mammography and early screenings and detection. It was a wonderful evening arranged by the pastor’s wife, Jane Pase. After the event, Jane approached me and asked me, “What can we do for your ladies who are diagnosed, that would bless them?”

As I later learned, this was so indicative of Jane’s servant’s heart ...

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Thursday, September 22, 2022

FBR Report: "Nothing Done for Love is Wasted: Two Rangers Killed in Burma Army Attacks"

The Free Burma Rangers (FBR) is a multi-ethnic humanitarian service movement. They bring help, hope and love to people in the war zones of Burma (Myanmar) and the Middle East. Groups send teams to be trained, supplied and sent into the areas under attack to provide emergency assistance and human rights documentation. Together with other groups, the teams work to serve people in need.



FBR Photo
Nothing Done for Love is Wasted: Two Rangers Killed in Burma Army Attacks

18 July 2022
Karenni State, Burma

Dear friends,

We are very sorry to inform you that we have just lost two more of our Rangers while a third was seriously wounded. ...

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Thank you and God bless you,

Dave, family, and team

CLICK HERE to learn how YOU can get involved in FBR and its mission ...

“LOVE EACH OTHER.
UNITE AND WORK FOR FREEDOM, JUSTICE, AND PEACE.
FORGIVE AND DON’T HATE EACH OTHER.
PRAY WITH FAITH, ACT WITH COURAGE, NEVER SURRENDER.”

Monday, September 12, 2022

In the News ... "Memorial honors victims of femicide in Juárez"

EPT Photo by Omar Ornelas
“It destroys my heart to come and see where my daughter ended up”

By Lauren Villagran, Reporter and Omar Ornelas, Photographer
El Paso Times


JUÁREZ, MEXICO - It was a solemn day, a decade in the making and one small step on the road to justice for the mothers of some of the 25 girls and women, victims of femicide in Juárez whose remains were found in 2013 and 2014 ...

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Sunday, September 11, 2022

Today in the PC-USA Mission Yearbook


The Mission Yearbook for Prayer and Study is a daily devotional with 365 inspiring mission stories that come from next door and all across the globe. It inspires thousands of Presbyterians daily as they uphold the mission of the Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.) in intercessory prayer.

Today in the Mission Yearbook: September 11, 2022

REMEMBERING SEPTEMBER 11TH- The tragic events of Sept. 11, 2001, are 21 years in our past. The consequences of that infamous day continue to bring suffering and pain. Today we remember those who perished and seek to live in such a way that the lives lost bring good amid ongoing division and mistrust ...

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